Realising we'll never get what we want ... the only real conclusion remains that we need to enjoy what we have … written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

We all … analyse life.

And the people around us.

Trying to understand all.

But you know why?!

Well … i believe we need to know everything … so that we can get all from those connections we have.

Maybe even … take advantage from them.

So … we dig deep.

Try to really understand the profile.

All of them.

All related with the personality.

… but also with the soul.

And … everything related to the real life.

So … we go beyond the boundaries … but unfortunately many, many times we realise …. it’s not what we thought it is.

… that person being totally different than the projection from our minds.

We become … disappointed.

Extremely.

Cause nothing is how we’ve expected to be.

And … realistically … if we would be honest enough … we could accept that many of our relationships are based on needs and in fact … all sorts of silly interests.

Fortunately … or unfortunately … the time reveals all.

For both sides.

Our real intentions.

But also … the fact that most probably we’ll not get what we want.

So …

What should we do?!

Well …

I smile today realising all those reasons … beyond relationships of any type.

Yes.

I smile.

Even laugh.

Most probably … we should just readapt.

And … simply enjoy what we get.

I remember a weird episode from my life.

Even if i am not proud of it.

And you’ll laugh hearing the story.

The director of a company i was working with … proposed me to bribe him and he will double the contract we have together.

He told me exactly what he wants … and I’ve agreed with him.

But later on he started to act like he totally forgot

everything.

I could not believe it.

So I’ve told him to resign the contract … even if they already payed me.

He just smiled saying … “It’s ok. No problem. I agree. I simply tried to get all i could get from you … for myself and for my company.

I work for this company.

Also for my own interests.

So … now that you don’t agree anymore to give us anything … i agree to close our relationship.”

I could not believe it.

But … it was my stupidity to agree to bribe him … proving myself that i am … one more time … a man without values.

So … he realised i loved money.

Of course … all being obvious … cause i was a businessman.

He pushed me … beyond my limits … making me to accept to bribe him.

And … continuing to push the things … trying into the same time to get the best he could get from me … also as a director of that company.

I still laugh of my stupidity from those times … but it’s a real fact from my past.

A clear example of what i want to say today.

But … i don’t regret anything.

No.

Seeing all … as a reflection of my dark side … understanding i need to become a better human on the stage of life … i think all happened for my benefit.

For my evolution.

Not as a businessman.

… but as a soul.

Analysing all … I continue to see the life itself and its meaning much more clearly.

And … i am happy.

In one form or another i must do that with all my relationships.

Go beyond the limits … and benefit of what the Universe wants me to benefit…

Not … what i had in mind … into the beginning.

Cause many of my thoughts are just stupid and illusory.

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